Cat herding: Overcoming Challenges in Planning a Large Group International Trip
- Mango Mono
- 6 days ago
- 5 min read
Planning a large group international trip can feel like trying to herd cats. With so many personalities, preferences, and logistical challenges, it’s no wonder that many people shy away from organizing such adventures. However, with the right strategies and a bit of patience, you can turn this daunting task into a memorable experience for everyone involved.
In this blog post, we’ll explore some common difficulties faced when planning a large group trip and offer practical solutions to make the process smoother and more enjoyable.
Understanding the Group Dynamics
When planning a trip for a large group, the first challenge is understanding the dynamics of the group. Each person will have different interests, budgets, and travel styles. Some may prefer luxury accommodations, while others are more budget-conscious.
There are two primary ways we've seen groups plan:
- Concenus management 
- With an appointent or self-appointed vision leader 
Concenus manager:
To tackle this, consider creating a survey to gather preferences from everyone involved. Ask about their must-see destinations, preferred activities, and budget constraints. This will help you get a clearer picture of what the group wants and allow you to tailor the itinerary accordingly. By selecting this path it might take longer but you'll feel like you met the majority of the group needs.
Base things to align on:
- Weather 
- Approximate travel distance / flight length 
- Budget 
- Languages spoke or how different it is from your home culture 
Vision leader:
Maybe it's your birthday or you're just that person who is the 'planner'. The group thinks you're the person to get it all figured out. You'll hear the perspectives of the group but are opperating as the knowledgble person for both the members of your group and answering a lot of questions about the destination. You'll still have align on the base things, but not get complete concenus. You're able to plan faster than someone needing concenus but could leave some people feeling left out if they had hopes or expectations for the trip.
Setting a Realistic Budget
Budgeting for a large group can be tricky. Costs can quickly add up, and it’s essential to set a realistic budget that everyone can agree on.
Start by estimating the total cost of the trip, including flights, accommodations, meals, and activities. Once you have a rough estimate, present it to the group and discuss how to divide the costs. Consider setting up a group fund where everyone contributes a set amount upfront to cover shared expenses. This can help avoid awkward conversations about money later on.
With the right venue partners or planners, you can have tiered options that match different bugets. For example, at Mango Mono the concierge has access to several different tiers of rooms, zipline options, spa, food options. This way you can enjoy similar amenities but price for each individual in your group based on their budget. Onesize won't fit all, but this way everyone gets join on the vacation!
Choosing the Right Destination
Selecting a destination that appeals to everyone can be one of the most challenging aspects of planning a group trip. Some may want to relax on a beach, while others are eager for nightlife, or to explore nature.
To find a compromise, consider destinations that offer a variety of activities. For example, a city with cultural attractions, outdoor adventures, and vibrant nightlife can cater to different interests. Additionally, involve the group in the decision-making process by presenting a shortlist of potential destinations and allowing everyone to vote.
The Mango Mono concierge can help you organize when in your trip might be best to do each adventure and where to go based on your interests. They've helped with pub crawls, tattoo days, adventure hikes and more!

Accommodations for Everyone
Finding suitable accommodations for a large group can be a logistical nightmare. Large hotels might have distributed rooms so far you might not see each other.
Consider renting a large vacation home or multiple apartments in the same complex (like Mango Mono). This not only provides more space but also allows for communal areas where everyone can gather. There is a downside to traditional large vacation homes where many you have to share the same bathroom with another person in your group or have unusual accommodations (sofas etc). Make sure to see what the layout of the property is and how many bedrooms have their own bathrooms.
Coordinating Transportation
Transportation is another critical aspect of planning a large group trip. Coordinating flights, airport transfers, and local transportation can be overwhelming.
With the Mango Mono concierge, they'll arrange large air conditioned tour buses and travel for your group. If your group is larger than 10 people, it's worth calling your airline to see about group reservations.
Creating a Flexible Itinerary
While it’s essential to have a plan, it’s equally important to allow for flexibility. A rigid itinerary can lead to frustration, especially if some group members want to explore different activities.
Create a loose itinerary that includes must-see attractions and activities but also allows for free time. This way, individuals can pursue their interests without feeling constrained by the group’s schedule. Encourage open communication so that everyone feels comfortable suggesting changes or new ideas.
We recommend 1-2 'group excursions' and allow for the rest of the days to self-organize. As either the organizer through concensus or the appointed leader, it makes everything a lot more smooth to only focus on 1-2 group plans. This way people have time to relax between all the socializing and adventures.
Managing Expectations
With a large group, it’s crucial to manage expectations. Not everyone will be happy with every decision, and that’s okay.
Set the tone early on by emphasizing that the trip is about enjoying each other’s company and creating memories, rather than trying to please everyone. Encourage group members to be open-minded and flexible, and remind them that compromises may be necessary.
Communication is Key
Effective communication is vital when planning a large group trip. Misunderstandings can lead to frustration and conflict, so it’s essential to keep everyone informed.
If you are by concensus, create a group chat where you can share updates, itineraries, and important information. It may be worth it to only invite key members to this chat. This will help ensure that everyone is on the same page and can voice any concerns or suggestions.
We do not recommend email as a way to keep communication going. People forget to include each other and it just turns into a mess of communication.
At Mango Mono, we print out the agreed itinerary and post that for your group so everyone can see: what, when, where, and how.
Conclusion
Planning a large group international trip may seem like a daunting task, but with the right strategies in place, it can be a rewarding experience. By understanding group dynamics, setting a realistic budget, choosing the right destination, and maintaining open communication, you can create a memorable adventure that everyone will cherish.
We want to be a helpful thought partner to you and your journey. You don't have to plan alone!
Remember, the key to a successful trip is flexibility, compromise, and Pura Vida! Embrace the chaos, enjoy the journey, and most importantly, have fun! After all, it’s not just about the destination; it’s about the memories you create together along the way.
Happy travels!
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